Hello, I’m Kae (they/them)
A lot of people who’s brains or experiences fall outside the norm have had their needs pathologized or inadequately supported, including in therapy. This can make it harder to identify what is a result of trauma, anxiety, depression, etc. and what is part of your brain functioning that might need more support. My approach parses through the nuances of neurodivergent traits so that we can focus on meeting your goals in a way that is supportive, sustainable, and not overwhelming or harmful.
If you are looking for an approach that is neuroqueer-affirming, accessible, and tailored to you, this is the space for you. As a queer, trans, and auDHD clinician, my work is grounded in the principles of disability justice and anti-oppressive frameworks that center your bodily autonomy and personal agency. My therapeutic approach is client-centered, trauma-informed, and collaborative.
While I see people of all identities, I specialize in seeing youth and adults at the intersection of LGBTQ+, neurodivergent, and disabled experiences, including those in the kink and poly communities. Within this specialty, I use the social identity definition of neurodivergent, which includes anyone who’s brain differs from the majority. This can include people who are autistic, auDHDers, plural, gifted, or anything else under the broad neurodivergent umbrella.
In my practice, I often pull from ACT, parts work, narrative therapy, and existential therapy. I have a deep knowledge of executive functioning, neurodivergent cognition, and sensory processing that I often use to help clients understand their experiences and support needs.
I might be a good fit for you if you. . .
- Need a therapist who isn’t a blank slate, but will actively collaborate with you in sessions
- Feel like you spend a lot of time fighting with your own brain to feel things or get through your day
- Experience sensory processing or executive functioning differences that have made it hard to follow cookie-cutter approaches
- Have felt like other therapists or approaches rushed you, didn’t explain things well, or didn’t have an approach that helped you
- Need a therapist who understands systemic oppression and how it can impact your life
- Prefer an approach that is low-demand and centered on your agency
- Are queer, trans, neurodivergent, and/or disabled and looking for an affirming space and a therapist with shared identities
My experience
My professional experience includes work in neuroscience, epigenetic, and public health research, copywriting, and afterschool educational programs. I have worked with the queer and trans community at crises lines and peer support groups. I currently support neurodivergent people outside of my clinical work as a social worker in work-based learning programs at Tech Unlimited and a workshop facilitator at Autistic Adults NYC. Outside of work, I enjoy singing, deep diving into my special interests, and listening to whatever book seems most appealing from the Queer Liberation Library.
I have a Masters of Social Work and a Masters of Public Health from New York University, as well as a Bachelor of the Arts in English and Classics, with a minor in Biology from Rutgers University.
Licensure and Supervisors
License Master of Social Work, NY (Started 2026, expires 2029): 132292
Licensed Social Worker, NJ (Started 2026, expires 2029): 44SL07497600
As a LMSW/LSW, I need to be supervised to see clients. I currently primarily work with and am supervised by Dulcinea Pitagora for clients in New York and New Jersey. I also see clients through and am supervised by Melissa Sornik for some clients in NY.
How you can see me
I offer appointments for individuals and couples. Sessions virtual or in-person in Manhattan. I conduct sessions on weekdays and Saturdays at varying times. Please reach out for specific availability. I am out-of-network with insurance and have multi-tiered sliding scale fees.
For clients who are non-speaking or prefer other modes of communication, Alternative or Augmented Communication (AAC) options are available.
